In his New York Times bestselling memoir, Jonathan Van Ness reflects on the challenging moments of his life, such as surviving sexual abuse and addiction and being diagnosed with HIV, alongside his joyful experiences, including his breakout role on Netflix's Queer Eye and his pursuits in figure skating and stand-up comedy. He emphasizes that thriving requires overcoming the shame and fear of being one's true self, which involves getting comfortable with discomfort. In this candid essay collection, Jonathan thoughtfully explores timely topics through his personal experiences, highlighting moments that have prompted growth and a deeper understanding of the world. He addresses themes like grief, body neutrality, the HIV safety net, and white privilege, sharing how he has embraced change. His stories encourage readers to confront internalized beliefs, cultivate compassion and confidence, and appreciate the complexity of our shared humanity. With a balance of humor and seriousness, these essays inspire readers to challenge their assumptions and expand their perspectives, ultimately advocating for the acceptance of our flawed yet fabulous selves and the beauty of our individual narratives.
