Barbara Abercrombie Libri

When Barbara Abercrombie’s husband died, she found the language of condolence irritating, no matter how well intended. “My husband had not gone to a better place as if he were off on a holiday. He had not passed like clouds overhead, nor was he my late husband as if he’d missed a train. I had not lost him as if I’d been careless, and for sure, none of it was for the best.” She yearned instead for words that acknowledged the reality of death, spoke about the sorrow and loneliness (and perhaps even guilt and anger), and might even point the way toward hope and healing. She found those words in the writings gathered here.The Language of Loss is a book to dip into and read slowly, a collection of poems and prose to lead you through the phases of grief. The selections follow an arc that mirrors the path of many mourners — from abject loss and feeling unmoored, to glimmers of promise and possibility, through to gratitude for the love they knew. These writings, which express what often feels ineffable, will accompany those who grieve, offering understanding and solace.

Focusing on the therapeutic power of writing, this handbook serves as a guide for those dealing with serious illness or injury. Drawing from her own battle with breast cancer and featuring stories from notable figures like Stephen King and Lance Armstrong, Abercrombie emphasizes the importance of expressing emotions through writing. The book encourages readers to share their experiences, highlighting how this process can aid in healing and foster a sense of community among those facing similar challenges.

Matthew's creativity shines during show-and-tell when he transforms a mundane moment into an imaginative tale about owning a lion. As he shares his story with his classmates, the narrative expands, showcasing the power of imagination and storytelling. The vibrant illustrations enhance the experience, making it a delightful read for young audiences who appreciate the magic of creativity.